Some questions do not have answers

Overthinking

How do you know if you really like a person because of who the person is himself or because of what he can do for you? I mean, if a guy treats you really well and you fall in love, was it his act of treating you well that you're in love with - or the person itself? Perhaps deep down all you wanted was someone to take care of you and therefore the first person that does it... bang - you fall.

Perhaps some may say the act is the manifestation of the person's personality - it is who he is. But what if everything was just a show and it means nothing? How do you learn to trust yourself enough to know the difference between liking the person and liking what the person can offer you?

Feeling very tired.

posted by Evelyn at 12:57 AM